WILD CHILD
Survivors of Incest & Childhood Sexual Abuse
Wild Child (SICSA) is an empowering community for adult survivors of incest and childhood sexual abuse.We come together to heal, process our trauma together with people who understand our pain, to empower one another, and to turn our pain into purpose. We shift the shame off of ourselves and back onto those who caused it, reclaim our voices, and build the kind of community we always deserved.
We are created by survivors, for survivors; and we're not staying silent anymore.
How Wild Child Will Support You...
These are the three primary resources we offer at Wild Child...
Resources & Literature
Tools, literature, book recommendations, directories, self-care guides and so much more to help support every stage of your healing journey.
Peer-Led Support Groups
Survivor led groups and activities where you can share, listen, heal and build community alongside people who understand our pain.
Advocacy & Action
Whether you'd like to get involved in Wild Child, or in something larger. We are always looking for volunteers and people who want to help push for systemic change. Calling on our lawmakers to hold those who harm children accountable.
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Founded in Dec 2025
OUR STORY
Created With the Passion to Give Survivors What We Deserve
Wild Child was founded in December 2025 by Éowyn Dahl, a survivor of incest who spent years fighting to survive and even harder to heal. They realized that too many of us have come forward and been met with judgment, isolation, injustice, shame, and/or cruelty when we spoke the truth about what happened to us; and that too many programs push frameworks that were never designed for survivors in mind. Eowyn had gotten tired of the spaces that claimed to be for us actually causing more harm to us.. Survivors deserve more than that, and Wild Child exists because of it.
Crisis and Support Resources
The resources here may offer immediate support in a time of crisis. Use what feels appropriate for your situation.
These are other organizations that offer many other services such as peer-support, survivor-centered advocacy and information.
We know paid-therapy isn't accessible for a lot of people without healthcare, so we have found free emotional support options as well as standard therapist searches here.
COMING SOON
Educating yourself about trauma can help you make sense of your own experiences without blame or shame. This section contains books, videos and much more.
Participating in self care is an essential part of healing. These tools may be helpful anytime you need support.
COMING SOON
Some survivors may want information about legal options related to their abuse; other's do not. If this is something for you, the resources are here.
Created by survivors, for survivors.
Coming Soon!
TIME UNTIL SUPPORT GROUPS BEGIN...
OUR STORY
We refuse to stay silent.
We stand together.
Wild Child was created because far too many survivors have been in search of a community that cares about them and wants to see them heal. A community that wasn't centered around religion, or created with steps recycled from a program that wasn't built with survivors in mind, that leave us feeling stuck in our healing. We deserve more. We deserve spaces that are built for us.We believe that healing is possible if you're given the right tools. It takes a lot of work, but you don't have to carry it alone. Here at Wild Child, you can heal alongside a community of people who understand your pain, and understand the stigma around being a survivor; and we can heal together. Leaning on our community until we can learn to love and lean on ourselves.We were created for survivors, by survivors.
~1 in 4
Girls experience sexual abuse before the age of 18.
~90%
Of child sexual abuse is perpetrated by someone known and trusted by the child or child's family members.
~1 in 20
Boys experience sexual abuse before the age of 18.
"I spent years searching for support groups and many years feeling like I never belonged or that the program wasn't for me. I also always felt like so many of these programs weren't built with the care and love survivors like myself deserved. I did everything I could to make these programs work for me and nothing ever did. I always felt stuck until I started advocating and fighting for myself and my life. When I realized that I deserved more, I realized other survivors deserved more as well; and I didn't want them to go through the shit I did. I realized that there weren't hardly any spaces for us that weren't religious or using AA's framework, which isn't a program with us in mind. So, I created Wild Child."— ÉOWYN DAHL, Founder of Wild Child
MEET THE FOUNDER
Éowyn's Story...
Éowyn is a survivor of incest & childhood sexual abuse at the hands of her father, mother and various family friends. They were abused for nearly 20 years at the hands of their father, and brainwashed into believing it was normal. However, through friends and therapy, they realized the abuse she faced wasn't normal and began fighting for recovery in 2020 at the age of 23.Éowyn had a lot of trouble finding the right friends, communities and therapists during this time. It seemed like nobody was equipped or willing to listen."It's in the past now, you shouldn't be focusing on that!"
"I don't want to hear about this, it makes me uncomfortable."
"I'm sorry, you're too big of a case for me to handle,"
— Various friends, therapists and loved ones.Time and time again, they ran into issues and eventually felt very isolated as a result. Nobody seemed willing to listen or be there, and things seemed to be very bleak. Éowyn didn't really know where to go from here.Then, they discovered support group spaces in late 2022; and Éowyn was so excited! She thought she figured it out, and would finally get to find a community of people who would understand!She attended these meetings from 2022-2024, and felt rather stagnant in their healing until they stepped up and began volunteering to be a Chair at the support group meetings to further help their community. They did that for a year and finally things started to feel a little better! They even began volunteering in the committees of an organization at the end of 2025 and became the Chair of the Outreach Committee to try and help more survivors get help; but then, that's when they realized...This program wasn't working.
Éowyn Dahl
she/they ⦾ 29 ⦾ AuDHD
Éowyn had spent years in this program and never realized how stagnant things were until they began volunteering. They had attributed all this growth to the program itself, when in reality... the growth was from believing in herself and having a community of people who were there supporting them and encouraging them. Not the program.They also realized that the framework of this program was inherently harmful to survivors; a lot of the literature centered around reclaiming powerlessness, and handing off our pain to a higher power. Modern trauma informed care has moved away from this in recent years due to its negative impact on survivors. Ethically, they couldn't continue volunteering at this organization. She didn't want to direct vulnerable people to this program when she was aware of the harm it could cause her fellow survivors.So, as a result, Éowyn began building Wild Child in December 2025 to give survivors a space she felt we all deserved from the beginning.
Our Values
We know that it isn't standard for a support group organization to list out their values, but we believe in creating a space where survivors feel supported and safe.While you don't need to carry these values to attend, we just ask that if your viewpoints are different, that you keep them to yourself in order to keep our environment safe and welcoming for those who attend.
Racial Justice
We believe in movements such as Black Lives Matter, Land Back, & Abolishing ICE. We believe that people have the right to live and exist, regardless of their race.
Anti-Fascism
We are anti-fascists and that fascism, authoritarianism, and white supremacy are threats to survivors and marginalized people.
Pro-Choice
We believe that bodily autonomy is not a political opinion. Survivors and people everywhere should have the right to have access to reproductive care.
Anti-Genocide
We believe in, and support movements such as "Free Palestine", "Free Congo", and "Free Sudan". The people of the countries affected by genocide, occupation and apartheid deserve to be free.
See a comprehensive list of all of our values, along with links to donate to their causes →
Are you ready to join us?
Wild Child is free, survivor-led community built with the belief that nobody should have to heal alone, and that we deserve to be seen, heard and believed. If you are a survivor of incest or childhood sexual abuse, then you belong here just as you are.
Find your group.
Find your people.
All Wild Child meetings are free and survivor-led. Browse our calendar below to find a group or event that feels right for where you are right now. If a certain group doesn't feel right for you, there's no shame in leaving early. This page will give you all the information you may need about the different types of groups and events we offer.
Browse the calendar & Register for a group
Click any event to see the details and RSVP. All times shown in your local timezone.
Group name key
This is a handy little key to tell you what each group consists of and what they all mean.
Peer-Led
Support Groups
Peer-Led Support Groups are a space where we can come together and process our trauma together, or share about the effects of the abuse we endured as well as share our healing journey and our wins.
Community-Specific
Support Groups
Community-Specific Support Groups are a space where specific survivors can come together and share on their own experiences with people like them. Some examples of this would are Womens/Mens Only, POC Only, Black Only, Autistic/ND Only, or LGBTQIA+ Only.
Book Club
Book Clubs are a fun, low pressure space to read together. The group will take turns reading the book for a certain amount of time. After, you will discuss what you've read. The book that is being read will be listed in the meeting description.
Committee Meetings
Committee Meetings are where we come together and get work done at Wild Child. You are allowed to join as an observer, and we encourage it! We want all of our members to have access to these meetings so they can be filled in about what we are doing for the organization. You may join the committees to participate if you would like to help Wild Child!
Board Meetings
Board Meetings are similar to the Committee Meetings, but they oversee the committees. We encourage members to join as observers and to see what is being done with the organization.
Movie Night
Movie Night is a cozy virtual space to watch films together. Movies are suggested and voted on by the community in our Discord server, so the community always has a say.
Game Night
Game Night is a fun, low-pressure space to play games together. Games will vary depending on the facilitator and will be listed in the event description.
Creative Activity
Our Creative Activities are all about making something together. The format will vary depending on the facilitator, and any supplies needed will always be listed in the event description.
Mindfulness Activity
Our Mindfulness Activities are focused on grounding and healing. The theme and focus of each session are chosen by the facilitator and may vary.
Fitness Activity
Our Fitness Activities focus on gentle, accessible movement. Any supplies needed will be listed in the description of the activity.
Trivia Night
Trivia Night is a way for us to come together and maybe even learn a thing or two together! Trivia topics will vary depending on the facilitator, as they will be the one creating the questions.
Community Events
These are typically yearly or biyearly community gatherings that encourage us to acknowledge and celebrate our wins as a community and as an organization.
OUR LITERATURE & GUIDES
Safety is incredibly important to us...
At Wild Child (SICSA), our literature and community guidelines are how we keep each other safe. We encourage all of our members to familiarize themselves with the literature so you know what we have to offer you, and so you're able to engage with this space appropriately. It also ensures that no one is left feeling unheard or uncomfortable.
Our guidelines and literature were intentionally made to be simple, so you don't have to take too much energy trying to understand what we're asking of you; however please don't hesitate to reach out if you have any questions! While we may have tried to keep things simple, everyone processes things differently.
Our Guidelines...
Support Group Guidelines
These guidelines outline how we expect members to act in our support groups.
Virtual Event Safety Guidelines
These guidelines outline how we expect members to act during virtual or community events.
Committee Safety Guidelines
These guidelines outline how we expect members or observers to act during committee or board meetings.
Additional Safety Guidelines
These are additional guidelines for special circumstances surrounding COCSA and its nuances.
These guidelines exist to keep our members safe...
If you break a accidentally guideline in our space, the Chair of the group you are in will gently remind you of the guideline by reading it aloud after you have finished speaking. These guidelines exist to keep all of our members safe and comfortable, not to shame any individual. You will not be punished for a mistake. However, if you break guidelines multiple times, a discussion will be held regarding this to ensure everybody is okay and you are understanding the guidelines. If you are unable to follow the guidelines, you may be asked to leave until you're able to own your behavior and agree not to behave in this way again for the safety of the group.
Our Affirmations...
1.I give my inner child the compassion they deserve for the horrors they survived.2. Speaking my truth is an act of courage, but so is protecting myself. I choose to hold space for both.3. My body is my own and I am learning to feel safe in it.4. Community empowerment begins when I show up authentically and others feel safe to do the same.5. I continue to break cycles for myself, those who come after me, and to honor those who came before me.6. My feelings are valid. Anger, grief, joy and hope can all coexist in my healing.7. I am worthy of love, respect and dignity just as I am.8. I am allowed to grieve the childhood I never had while building the life I always deserved.9. I am not alone. There are others walking beside me, even when I cannot see them.10. I am not to blame for what happened, I am not responsible for someone else’s choices.11. I am not weak when I ask for help, it’s how I practice believing I’m worth supporting.
Some important reads
The following documents are some of our most important to read, especially for newcomers! Take a look at them when you have a moment.
Frequently Asked Questions
Questions that are frequently asked by survivors. Check this out if you have any questions before reaching out, chances are your answer is here; if not, then feel free to reach out to us!
Newcomer Resource Guide
A quick and easy guide for our groups, committees, activities, and everything else. Essential reading before attending a group!
"No Longer Silent" Podcast
We're not staying silent anymore, and you don't have to, either. No Longer Silent is Wild Child's podcast, and we're always looking for survivors who want to share their story, their healing journey, or just have an unfiltered conversation about incest and CSA. You can join us under your name, a pseudonym, or fully anonymously.
COMING SOON
Volunteer With Us
Wild Child is built on community. Whether you're a survivor, clinician, journalist, or advocate, there's a place for you here. See how to get involved!
Our Finances
Full financial transparency; where our funding comes from and how it's spent. Because you deserve to know exactly how Wild Child operates.
COMING SOON
COMING SOON
Contribute to Wild Child's Social Media!
We accept art of all kinds of things; poetry, prose, short stories, studies, photography, paintings, drawings, and personal recollections about incest and childhood sexual abuse, from survivors and licensed professionals.All submissions are posted to our Substack.
1. We Promise to Believe You.
We don’t require any proof or documentation to access our resources or support. Your experiences are valid and should not be questioned by anyone affiliated with Wild Child, or within our support spaces.
2. We Promise to Respect You.
We will always respect your boundaries and your choices. Wild Child offers resources and guidance but we will never pressure you to take a certain route for your healing journey.
3. We Promise to Prioritize Your Safety.
Safety is our top priority here at Wild Child. We use secure Zoom rooms to host our groups & activities. All of our facilitators are vetted to the best of our abilities before they are able to begin a support group. All decisions made within the organization will always have your safety in mind.
4. We Promise to See You as a Whole Person.
You are not defined by your abuse. While it may be part of your story, it is not your whole story. We will do our best to uplift you; your resilience, your grief, your sadness, your successes, your failures, and your passions. We will celebrate who you’re becoming, who you’ve been, and who you are today.
5. We Promise to Never Promote Shame.
We will never use language or enforce policies that may suggest you are responsible for your abuse or should feel ashamed for your experiences. We will challenge shame based narratives within our advocacy work and to forever remind fellow survivors that you did not do anything to deserve your abuse.
6. We Promise to Uplift Your Intersectionality.
We recognize that race, gender, sexuality, disability and other identities fundamentally shape your experiences of abuse and healing. We are committed to listening to and learning from survivors of marginalized communities to help lead and shape our organization. We strive to stay educated on how systems of oppression make certain groups' trauma more complex and recovery more difficult.
7. We Promise to Lead With Compassion.
We lead with kindness and empathy, but know that alone is not enough. When we fall short or when something isn’t working, we will listen without defensiveness, investigate the problem thoroughly, and make changes where they need to be made. Your feedback directly influences and impacts how we grow and change as an organization.
8. We Promise to Advocate for All Survivors.
We understand that many survivors cannot safely share their stories due to personal, legal, or professional reasons; while others are ready and willing to speak out. In our advocacy work, we will amplify both. We create platforms for survivors who are ready and willing to share their experiences, and we use our voice to represent those who cannot. We will work with legislators, push for policy & systemic change, demand institutional accountability, and challenge harmful systems with passion and open ears. Our work does not end with a private community for survivors, it continues daily as we strive for radical change of the system and its tendency to downplay survivors.
9. We Promise to Uphold Community.
We do not believe healing happens in isolation here at Wild Child. We create regular opportunities for virtually connecting with fellow survivors; support groups, community spaces, and events that celebrate our life beyond trauma and to process it together. We believe in both self-empowerment and empowerment through a community. You do not have to carry this weight alone.
10. We Promise to Honor Confidentiality.
What is shared in our virtual groups stays in those groups. We use a secure Zoom room to host all of our support groups and community-based events, we will never share your story without explicit and informed consent, and we will never record a session without giving explicit notice. Please reach out to the administrators immediately if you believe your confidentiality has been compromised.
11. We Promise to Celebrate Joy as an Act of Resistance.
At Wild Child we strive to cultivate a space that feels positive and nurturing. You are allowed to be happy, celebrate wins, and to share gratitude without guilt. We offer virtual events such as game nights, creative workshops, movie watch parties and much more to cultivate this. We believe in celebrating our successes alongside processing our traumas. Your trauma does not define you, and we believe that reclaiming joy is an essential part of healing alongside processing our trauma. Here, you are celebrated in all that you are.
Crisis Resources
If you or somebody you know is experiencing a medical or mental health emergency please dial your local emergency number.
If calling law enforcement is not a safe or viable option for you, please consider seeking support through a hotline or helpline, instead.
If you are in need of non-immediate assistance, please dial your local non emergency number.
Hotlines & Helplines
These are resources available to you if you are in a crisis. If you know of any other resources that you would like listed on the website, or if there are any with a problematic history, please contact us using the contact form and let us know. We care for fellow survivors here at Wild Child.
RAINN provides free, confidential, and trauma-informed support services to survivors of sexual violence, available 24/7 by phone, chat, or text.
211 is a free, 24/7 confidential service in the U.S. and Canada that connects individuals with local community, health, and disaster resources. By dialing 2-1-1, users receive referrals for essential needs, including food, housing, utility assistance, and crisis intervention, simplifying access to social services.
StrongHearts Native Helpline 1-844-7NATIVE (762-8483) is a safe, anonymous, and confidential domestic and sexual violence helpline for Native Americans and Alaska Natives, offering support and advocacy.We exist to restore power to Native Americans impacted by domestic and sexual violence by weaving together a braid of safety, sovereignty and support.
The Trevor Project is the leading suicide prevention and crisis intervention nonprofit organization for LGBTQ+ young people. We provide information & support to LGBTQ+ young people 24/7, all year round.
An anonymous, nonjudgmental space for youth. Teen Line Teens can access personal peer-to-peer support from highly trained teens supervised by adult mental health professionals.
We are here to serve all those impacted by relationship abuse 24/7 confidentially.We want to make talking about relationship abuse as easy as possible for everyone, regardless of their primary language.
Substance Abuse & Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) leads public health and service delivery efforts that treat mental illness, especially serious mental illness, prevent substance abuse and addiction, and provide treatments and supports to foster recovery while ensuring access and better outcomes for all.
Call BlackLine® provides a space for peer support, counseling, reporting of mistreatment, witnessing and affirming the lived experiences for folxs who are most impacted by systematic oppression with an LGBTQ+ Black Femme Lens. Call BlackLine® prioritizes BIPOC (Black, Indigenous, and People of Color). By us for us.
Trans Lifeline’s Hotline is a peer support phone service run by trans people for our trans and questioning peers. Call us if you need someone trans to talk to, even if you’re not in a crisis or if you’re not sure you’re trans.
Are you a Veteran in crisis or concerned about one? You're not alone— the Veterans Crisis Line is here for you. You don't have to be enrolled in VA benefits or health care to call. Your call is free and confidential, and you decide how much information to share.
1 in 3 U.S. adults feels lonely. 1 in 4 lacks emotional support. Loneliness is fueling anxiety and depression nationwide (CDC).
At Crisis Text Line, nearly 1 in 5 conversations involve loneliness or isolation, showing how urgently support is needed.Need to vent? Text HOME to 741741 to connect with a live volunteer Crisis Counselor.
At the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, we understand that life's challenges can sometimes be difficult. Whether you're facing mental health struggles, emotional distress, alcohol or drug use concerns, or just need someone to talk to, our caring counselors are here for you. You are not alone. The 988 Lifeline is available 24/7/365. Your conversations are free and confidential.
All of our support volunteers identify as part of the LGBTQIA+ family, and are here to serve the entire community, by providing free & confidential peer-support, information, and local resources through national hotlines and online programs.
Your call is always free and 100% confidential, with a trusted advisor who has helped many people just like you. Call for yourself or a loved one. We remain open day and night, 365 days a year to ensure we are there when you are ready to seek help.
Pregnant or just had a baby? The National Maternal Mental Health Hotline is free, confidential, and here to help, 24/7. Professional counselors answer Hotline calls, texts, and chats. They may be licensed health care professionals, certified educators, or specialists.
Other Support & Advocacy Groups
Other options if we are not the best fit for your needs!
Hope & Healing Survivor Resource Center offers a variety of support groups to survivors of sexual violence, domestic violence, intimate partner violence, and other types of abuse. All support groups are free of charge and are open to survivors 18 years of age and older. Support groups offer a non-judgmental, safe, and confidential way for survivors to move forward in their healing process and connect with other survivors who have experienced similar situations.
Welcome to End the Silence, an online forum for prose, poetry, and visual art dedicated to ending the silence surrounding sexual violence. Tell your story and help end the silence.Our mission is to promote communication about sexual violence by empowering survivors and their loved ones to use creative expression as a tool to reclaim their voices.
Groups are cost-free and open to all men who have a computer or smartphone with an internet connection. Please note that these Online Support Groups are designed as peer support groups, not group therapy. The facilitator’s presence is not intended to provide an experience that would replace or substitute for group or individual therapy. We encourage Online Support Group participants to access therapy with a licensed clinician whenever possible.
The Army of Survivors is the only national organization advocating for and supporting child athlete survivors of sexual violence. The organization was created by a group of more than 40 survivors of sexual violence. Its goal is to end sexual assault against young athletes by ensuring perpetrators and enablers are held accountable, creating transparency in reporting, building an environment in which athletes do not fear retaliation when reporting abuse, and advocating for change to protect survivors.
isurvive is an online abuse survivor support group. We are a volunteer-driven organization with a team composed of people from various places around the United States, Australia, Europe and the UK.We offer resources and forums where adult survivors of child abuse and their loved ones can seek support. We are growing on a daily basis, reaching many people from all over the world and offering hope that healing can happen.
To find assistance online, survivors of sexual violence can join us on Zoom on weekday evenings to find support and healing. Family Service League is always looking to find new ways to support the community, so please inquire at [email protected] if you do not see a group that fits for you.
MaleSurvivor has offered support, community and learning opportunities for thousands of men like you since the 1990s. This is not only proof that our methods are effective, but also that you are not alone. That realization is an important one, as hearing the stories of others and sharing your own are powerful ways to heal.
Survivors of Incest Anonymous (SIA) is a 12-step, self-help program modeled after Alcoholics Anonymous for survivors of childhood sexual abuse. Meetings are available online and via the phone, visit website for meeting times and connection information.
Wings supports adult survivors of childhood sexual abuse to transcend trauma and lead their fullest, healthiest lives. At Wings, we believe no adult survivor should ever struggle alone. We’re here to build a system of support around you as you navigate your healing journey– at your own pace and in ways that are empowering to you.
Pandora’s Project offers peer support to anyone who has been a victim of rape, sexual assault, or sexual abuse through our online support group, Pandora’s Aquarium. We believe that connecting with other rape and sexual abuse survivors is an important part of healing. Our online support group includes a message board, chat room, and blogs. It is free to join and is safely moderated by a diverse group of survivors.
A Long Walk Home is a national organization based in Chicago that uses art to empower young people and end violence against women and girls.A Long Walk Home is committed to increasing resources and opportunities for girls and young women in our society who are most vulnerable to multiple forms of violence in the Chicago area, including low-income, Black girls and women, those with disabilities, and LGBTQI+-identified and gender-expansive youth.
An international self-help support-group program. The program is designed specifically for adult survivors of physical, sexual, and/or emotional abuse or neglect.Meetings are very structured and conducted by two trained co-facilitators who follow a set script. Although every attendee is invited to share, no one is pressured to.
5WAVES is a US-based, 501(c)(3) nonprofit promoting Worldwide Awareness, Voice, Education and Support around Sibling Sexual Trauma–the ongoing effects of one sibling’s harmful or abusive sexual behavior toward another. 5WAVES operates an information hub website that has many pages that support survivors of sibling sexual trauma and abuse, and includes many links to various support resources.
There is something powerful about a group of individuals with shared experience and motivation coming together to build a community. Great things can happen when people experience the safety of understanding, support, and a desire for growth. And that is exactly the type of experience we want you to find in a survivor-led Saprea Support Group.
Mothers* Of Adult Survivors of Incest and Sexual Abuse is a safe place to find resources and community.Breaking the stigma and shame of incest and childhood sexual abuse by offering resources and a place of refuge.*for anyone supporting an adult survivor (not just mothers!).
Check out our Discord Server
Therapy & Emotional Support
These are resources available to you if you are in need of emotional support, or a therapist. If you know of any other resources that you would like listed on the website, or if there are any with a problematic history, please contact us using the contact form and let us know.
FIND EMOTIONAL SUPPORT
7 Cups (formerly 7 Cups of Tea) is an online, anonymous, and on-demand emotional support service that connects users with trained, volunteer "listeners" for free. It provides a 24/7 safe, non-judgmental space via chat to discuss stress, anxiety, relationship issues, etc.
Chat with Peer Support and express what’s on your mind. Safe, confidential and always free.TakemyHand peer chat operators are specially trained, have lived experience, and can relate to your struggles. Our safe space is here to offer hope, validation, and empowerment to uplift you. You matter. We care. There’s no judgment, just acceptance.
BuddyHelp will connect you to trained active listeners - compassionate, caring volunteers who will listen, support, and be there for you. Our methods are peer-reviewed and evidence-backed.
TalkLife is a global community built on real connections.We show up for each other through the highs and lows.
HearMe combats loneliness and improves emotional well-being with digital peer support, 24/7/365, confidentially & anonymously. This evidence-supported mental wellness service is now offered to individuals, enterprises & health plans.
At TimelyCare, we believe well-being drives success. That’s why we provide virtual care for students, faculty, and staff across K-12 and higher ed. From mental health to medical support, our platform expands access, complements campus resources, and fosters resilient communities—anytime, anywhere—helping schools improve outcomes, boost retention, and build a culture where everyone can thrive.
FIND A THERAPIST
Find A Therapist connects you with licensed mental health professionals including psychologists, clinical social workers, marriage and family therapists, and professional counselors.We understand that seeking help is an important step toward improving your life, but finding the right therapist for you can be overwhelming. That is why we made it easy to search for a therapist in your area.
Operating under the motto "Here to Help," it serves as a comprehensive resource connecting users with qualified therapists, psychiatrists, and treatment centers, while providing expert-authored content on human behavior.Our mission is to make behavioral science and psychology accessible to the general public, aiming to help people improve their lives, relationships, and mental health
The support you need, the way you need it
At Grow, care meets you where you are and moves with you into what’s next. With therapy and medication support in one place, 19,000+ providers, and care that starts in days, we’ve rethought every step to put you first.The right therapistcan change everything.
Your needs are personal. Your care should be too. Filter by 90+ specialties, availability, language, and more to find someone who gets your experience and supports how you want to feel.
The Psychologist Locator, managed by the American Psychological Association (APA) and its Practice Organization (APAPO), is a searchable online database designed to connect the public with licensed psychologists.Our primary mission is to help potential clients easily locate qualified, licensed psychologists in their area, and to offer a trustworthy, vetted, and authoritative source for finding mental health professionals.
Finding the right therapist is a vital step in managing your mental health, especially when talk therapy is a key part of your treatment. Narrowing your search to focus on what truly matters—such as the therapist’s experience, counseling style, treatment expertise, specialties, and personal compatibility—may help you identify a provider who aligns with your unique needs. By refining your options based on these essential criteria, it’s likely that your chosen therapist not only has the right expertise but may also make you feel comfortable and supported.
GoodTherapy's mission is to empower individuals to achieve healthier, happier lives by reducing stigma, educating the public, and providing access to ethical, high-quality mental health care. They focus on connecting users with qualified therapists, promoting non-pathologizing, collaborative, and evidence-based therapeutic practices to improve overall well-being.
Self Care Tools
These are some of our suggestions if you are looking for some self-care tools. If they do not work for you, please don't fret! There's lots of resources on our website that could help you in your time of need. However, feel free to head on over to our Contact page and reach out if you would like to request a new suggestion to be added!
Low Energy
These suggestions are for days where you hardly want to get out of bed, let alone do anything else. You deserve to treat yourself well, even on the worst days. Try one or two of these if you're able. Do what works best for you.
• Take 5 slow breaths, in your nose, out your mouth.• Get out of bed and lie on the floor for a few minutes.• Drink a glass of water.• Put on your favorite song or album.• Sit by an open window for 5 or 10 minutes.• Watch your favorite show or movie.• Change into a cozy outfit you love.• Wrap yourself in a blanket (with or without some tea.)• Close your eyes, place your hand on your chest and focus on your breath for 3 minutes.• Gently stretch your neck, shoulders and arms.• Intentionally do nothing (without guilt).• Order your favorite meal.• Have a deconstructed meal (eg: sandwich without putting the pieces together.)• Listen to rain or nature sounds.• Turn off your notifications for a little bit.• Light a scented candle or incense.• Think or whisper something nice to yourself.• Look at something you enjoy (pictures of animals, memes, anything that brings you joy.)• Hum quietly or sigh deeply.• Take a warm shower, or just stand under the water for a little bit.• Pet an animal (or imagine doing so).• Stretch your hands and fingers.• Rest your eyes, put your phone down.• Name how you're feeling without trying to fix it.• Dim your lights, or shut them off.• Allow yourself to rest without worrying about "earning it". We all deserve guilt-free rest.
Some Energy
These are some of our suggestions for days when you have a some energy. Not so little that you can't get out of bed, but not so much that you feel you can do a lot without over exerting yourself. Honor your energy, don't push yourself just because you feel a little better than before.
• Make yourself a warm drink and sip slowly. Savor it.• Journal for 5-10 minutes. You don't have to have a topic. Just write.• Stretch your whole body gently. You can do this in bed or on the couch.• Tidy one small surface in your space.• Step outside for some fresh air. You can just stand outside your front door.• Put on some music and sway a little to the beat. Or dance if you can.• Rearrange some of your decor, if you have any you want to move around.• Write a list of 5-10 things you are grateful for.• Do a 10-15 minute guided meditation.• Wash your face with intention.• Tend to your plants, water them, talk to them.• Draw something or color in a coloring book.• Organize your bag.• Read a few pages, or a chapter of your favorite book.• Change your sheets or even just your pillowcase.• Do a light walk on a treadmill (if you have one), or around your home with a nature walk video.• Open up your windows and let in some fresh air.• Create a playlist of your favorite music.• Delete some old photos or emails.• Sit quietly and check in emotionally, journal afterward.• Listen to an affirmation video or a mantra.• Take a mindful pause between tasks.• Make a simple meal and eat it mindfully.
High Energy
These are some of our suggestions for days you have high energy! Take advantage of this higher energy day but don't do so much that you're burnt out tomorrow. Use some of these self-care techniques to keep yourself feeling good.
• Deep clean one room.• Declutter a drawer or your closet.• Do a full workout or dance session. You can use a guided video.•Try Yoga or Pilates.• Go for a longer walk, shoot for 30-60 minutes. Outside or on a treadmill.• Cook your favorite meal.• Meal prep for the week.• Start a creative project or continue working on one you've already started.• Write freely for 20-30 minutes.• Make a vision board or list of goals.• Clear out your inbox (email, texts, etc)• Rearrange your room, or a room in your home.• Do a full self care routine (hair, skin, body).• Take a candlelit bath.• Create a weekly plan or schedule.• Write a letter of gratitude to a friend, you don't have to send it.• Do a 30+ minute guided meditation.• Journal about your boundaries, figure out what they are so they're established for tough situations.• Try doing a task you've been avoiding.• Clean your home fully.• Reflect on your goals and th eprogress you've made.• Journal for 20-30 minutes about your emotions or patterns you've noticed in yourself.• Plan something exiting for the future.• Do something to celebrate yourself. You deserve it for showing up for yourself today.
Additional Resources
"Self-Care Tips from Sexual Assault Survivors" from the Cleaveland Rape Crisis Center
"Tools for the Journey
Self-Care and Resiliency Tips" from Survivor Space
"Tools for Victims and Survivors" from Rape Crisis England & Wales
"Resources for Healing & Resilience" from Columbia University
"The Complexities of Self-Care After Sexual Assault" from the National Sexual Violence Resource Center
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change somebody's life
Wild Child is built upon building a community with one another. Whether you bring lived experience, professional training, or a passion for this work, there is a place for you here. We're so grateful you're even considering volunteering. People like you keep the organization alive and running. No one person can do this alone.
Ways to Get Involved with Wild Child
Becoming a Group Facilitator
Lead peer support groups and activities. Everything you need to know before you apply is in the training document. Our expectations, structure, and what the role looks like day to day. You may read or listen to this document.
Join Our Committees
Would you like to make a larger impact on the organization as a whole? Do you have the motivation and drive to help us build this organization and help reach more survivors? Join the committees and push for real, meaningful changes! Check out our committees and see if any of them catch your eye.
Passed Your Facilitator Test? Start a New Group!
Once your application has been approved, use this application to submit your group/event request. Note: please use 1 form per group. But if you'd like to start more than one, feel free to submit more than one at a time!
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Are you somebody who wants to help serve our community but don't have the time or energy to facilitate a group? Becoming a Discord moderator is the next best thing! Apply directly on Discord!
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Support Group Guidelines
These guidelines outline how we expect members to act in our support groups.
Virtual Event Safety Guidelines
These guidelines outline how we expect members to act during virtual or community events.
Committee Safety Guidelines
These guidelines outline how we expect members or observers to act during committee or board meetings.
Additional Safety Guidelines
These are additional guidelines for special circumstances surrounding COCSA and its nuances.
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Our Values
We believe that healing does not happen in a vacuum. Survivors of incest and childhood sexual abuse exist at every intersection of humanity; across race, gender, immigration status, sexuality, ability, and so much more. The systems that enable abuse are the same systems that uphold white supremacy, enforce borders, restrict bodily autonomy, and silence marginalized people. You cannot be truly pro-survivor without also being committed to the liberation of all people.So while we understand that this isn't the standard for an organization, we want every person who enters this space to know that they are welcome here in their full identity. We see you, we stand with you, and we refuse to be neutral in the face of injustice. Below is a comprehensive list of causes and values we openly support, along with places to donate if you are able.While you don't need to carry these values to get support within our community, we just ask that if your viewpoints are different, that you keep them to yourself in order to keep our environment safe and welcoming for those who attend.
Racial Justice
BLACK LIVES MATTER
Anti-Blackness is woven into the fabric of systems that harm survivors every single day. We stand firmly with the Black Lives Matter movement and affirm that Black lives are worthy of protection, dignity, and freedom. We support abolition, defunding police, and sending reparations.
LAND BACK
We stand with Indigenous peoples in their demand for the return of their stolen lands. Land Back is a material, political demand rooted in sovereignty, justice, and decolonization. We recognize that we exist on stolen land, and that nobody should be considered illegal on it.
Immigration Justice
ABOLISH ICE
ICE has been responsible for the separation of families, detention under inhumane conditions, the rape of women and girls, and the terrorization of immigrant communities across this country. We believe no human being is illegal, and we stand with those fighting for the abolition of ICE and an end to the criminalization of migration.
Anti-Fascism & Anti-Authoritarianism
ANTI-FASCISM
We are anti-fascist. We believe that fascism, authoritarianism, and white nationalism are existential threats to survivors and all marginalized people. Opposing fascism in all its forms, including its current institutional manifestations is a moral baseline.
OPPOSING THE TRUMP ADMINISTRATION
We are unambiguous in our opposition to Donald Trump and the policies of his administration. The rollback of bodily autonomy, the persecution of LGBTQIA+ people, the dismantling of immigrant protections, and the emboldening of white nationalism are all direct threats to our community members. Silence is not neutrality; it is compliance.
Reproductive Justice
ABORTION IS HEALTHCARE
Bodily autonomy is not a political opinion. Abortion is healthcare. Survivors of sexual violence deserve unrestricted access to reproductive care, and so does every person, regardless of how their pregnancy came to be. We support the right to abortion without limitation.
Global Liberation & Anti-Genocide
FREE PALESTINE
We stand unequivocally with the Palestinian people. What is happening in Gaza and the West Bank is a genocide, and we refuse to look away. Free Palestine should not be a political stance. Human rights are not political. We believe in a free Palestine, the right of return, and an end to all occupation and apartheid.
FREE CONGO
The Democratic Republic of Congo is experiencing one of the largest and most neglected humanitarian crises in the world, driven by decades of conflict, resource exploitation, and displacement. We stand in solidarity with the Congolese people and demand international accountability.
FREE SUDAN
Sudan is in the midst of the largest humanitarian and displacement crisis in the world, with over 30 million people in urgent need. The conflict has been marked by widespread gender-based violence and war crimes. We stand with the Sudanese people and support grassroots-led humanitarian response.
ALL COUNTRIES UNDER GENOCIAL REGIMES
We stand with all peoples living under occupation, genocide, or authoritarian violence. While we have named specific crises here, our solidarity is not limited to the ones that make headlines. Wherever people are being systematically killed, displaced, or oppressed, we believe in the right to liberation and international accountability.
LGBTQIA+ Rights
TRANS RIGHTS ARE HUMAN RIGHTS / PROTECT THE DOLLS
Trans rights are human rights. We especially stand with trans women of color who face disproportionate rates of violence and are often erased from conversations about trans liberation. "Protect the dolls" means protecting trans femmes and trans women of color specifically. We do not compromise on this.
LGBTQIA+ RIGHTS ARE HUMAN RIGHTS
Every person regardless of their sexual orientation, gender identity, or expression deserves to live freely and with full rights. We are unambiguously pro-LGBTQIA+ and actively opposed to any person, policy, or ideology that seeks to diminish those rights.
Anti-Carceral Justice & ACAB
A DEAD PEDOPHILE/RAPIST DOESN'T REOFFEND
We are a survivor-led space, and we do not equivocate when it comes to the harm caused by people who sexually abuse children. We also acknowledge the failure of the carceral system to protect survivors or prevent abuse, and we are in ongoing conversation with abolitionist frameworks. Our priority is always the safety and liberation of survivors; not the rehabilitation or protection of those who harm them.
Anti-AI & Ethical Technology
AGAINST EXPLOITATIVE AI
We are opposed to the unchecked expansion of AI systems that exploit the labor of artists, writers, and creators without consent or compensation; that surveil and harm marginalized communities; that are deployed in policing and immigration enforcement; and that generate non-consensual content of real people, including sexual content and deepfakes.
EAT THE RICH
The hoarding of wealth by billionaires is not a natural occurrence, it is the result of exploiting workers, undermining democracy, and stealing from communities. We do not admire or celebrate billionaires. We believe in wealth redistribution, and a world where no one has to choose between survival and dignity.
ACAM
We support and align with the values of ACAM (Anti-Carceral Advocacy for Minors / abolitionist frameworks centering minors). Children deserve to be protected; not by a system that incarcerates and criminalizes them, but by communities that genuinely care for their safety and wellbeing.
Support Group Guidelines
GUIDELINE 1: THIS IS A SURVIVOR ONLY SPACE
We do not allow the discussion of perpetrating behavior, sexual objectification for personal gratification, or fantasies involving harm to others. Our groups are explicitly for survivors of incest & childhood sexual abuse unless it is specified that supporters are allowed to join. This group [allows/does not allow] supporters. Our groups are meant to facilitate a safe space for us to share about our experiences and the impact of the abuse had on our lives with people who understand our pain and struggles.Note: We value the safety and comfort of our members, so while adults who have perpetrated against children are not allowed at Wild Child, however perpetrators of child-on-child sexual abuse (COCSA) are welcome in our groups under very specific circumstances. If you are someone who engaged in COCSA as a perpetrator, please check over this page to ensure you are following the additional guidelines and welcome to our group.
GUIDELINE 2: NO DISCRIMINATION OF ANY KIND
Discrimination against protected classes is not allowed at Wild Child. We do not express anger, hatred, disgust or any sort of negative emotion towards any person based on their gender identity, race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, disability, or religion. We focus our anger on our perpetrator(s) specifically, or on systemic issues.
GUIDELINE 3: SHARE FROM YOUR OWN EXPERIENCES
We share using “I” language unless you are multiple and referring to your system, but please let the group know that your “We” only applies to yourself. This keeps us focused on our own healing, rather than others. If you resonate with somebody’s share, avoid naming them or making your share about their experiences and thoughts. Keep your shares about you, your thoughts, and your experiences.
GUIDELINE 4: TRIGGER WARNINGS
We are allowed to share about the graphic details of our stories, but we show care for fellow survivors by announcing a trigger warning before sharing graphic content about your abuse, self harm, suicide, death, eating disorders, religion, or before using strong language. Please make sure to pause before continuing your share after giving a content warning to allow fellow survivors to take care of themselves and step back if they need to.
GUIDELINE 5: ALL FEELINGS ARE WELCOME
You are allowed to feel and express everything here in our support groups. You may sob freely and express anger, grief, terror, shame, or any other emotion without risk of being asked to leave; but please do not direct your emotions at other survivors. We recognize that being in a room with other survivors can be triggering; other survivors' voices, words or energy might remind you of your abuser but you may not treat them as if they are your abuser.
GUIDELINE 6: EVERY EXPERIENCE DESERVES TO BE BELIEVED
We trust survivors when they share their truth. You do not get to decide what is realistic or possible in someone else's life. Your experience doesn’t define everyone's reality. We also don’t rank pain here, there is no hierarchy of suffering. Yours and every person's experiences here have caused them trauma. Don’t minimize your own story, or anybody else's.
GUIDELINE 7: WHAT'S SHARED HERE, STAYS HERE
We believe that confidentiality is sacred. Do not repeat what you hear in these groups, do not share the names of anybody in these groups and do not take screenshots or recordings of anyone here. Do not gossip or bring conflicts with other members into our groups. Speak about others with the same kindness you would like extended to yourself.
GUIDELINE 8: KEEP RELATIONSHIPS PLATONIC
This is a space for healing, not a dating pool. Do not flirt with, pursue, or make sexual comments towards any member. We are here to support each other's recovery. Romantic or sexual dynamics compromise safety for survivors of sexual trauma.
GUIDELINE 9: RESPECT OUR VOLUNTEERS
Please keep in mind that all of our volunteers are fellow survivors or clinicians giving their time to support Wild Child. They deserve kindness and respect when interacting with them. We are all human. We are all survivors. However, if you believe a facilitator is abusing their leadership position, please do not hesitate to reach out to [email protected]
GUIDELINE 10: COMMENTING ON OTHER SHARES
In most of our groups, commenting on another person's share is not allowed. This group [allows/does not allow] comments. Please remember that whatever is shared is the opinion of the person who shared. Take what resonates and release the rest.GUIDELINE IF COMMENTS ARE NOT ALLOWED:
When somebody is sharing, we do not interrupt, correct, comfort, criticize, advise or respond to their share. Being heard is an important aspect of healing from the horrors we survived as children. Thanking someone for their share is NOT considered commenting, and is encouraged.GUIDELINE IS COMMENTS ARE ALLOWED:
We do not interrupt when somebody is sharing. Allow the person to share completely and once their share is over, thank them for their share and ask if they’re open to any comments, advice or comfort. We do NOT criticize anybody's share, even in groups where comments are allowed.
GUIDELINE 11: MAINTAIN ZOOM ETIQUETTE
Please keep yourself muted unless you are reading or sharing. Please turn your camera off if you are doing something or moving around a lot. Please do not use sexually explicit screensaver photos or display names (you may use a pseudo name if you are not comfortable or safe using your own). Please do not include your last name in your display name for safety reasons. If you resonate with somebody's share and would like to contact them outside of the group, feel free to leave your contact information in the chat or DM it to the person and offer connection without pressure.
Additional Safety Guidelines
Child-on-child sexual abuse (COCSA) represents one of the most complex intersections of trauma, particularly within families affected by incest and childhood sexual abuse (CSA). Research shows that children who have been sexually abused, sometimes go on to engage in sexually harmful behaviors toward another child as a direct manifestation of their own trauma and/or distorted understanding of boundaries. These individuals often carry shame and guilt into adulthood and feel isolated from survivor spaces despite being survivors themselves. We recognize that healing requires nuanced, trauma-informed approaches that acknowledge both the harm caused and the context of victimization. These additional guidelines aim to create a space where individuals with this specific history can access support for their own abuse, while maintaining safety and comfort of all group members.Wild Child may accept individuals who have engaged in COCSA under the following conditions.These are eligibility requirements and you must meet all of them in order to participate.
YOU MUST BE A SURVIVOR YOURSELF
You must be a survivor of incest or CSA/COCSA prior to or during the time of abuse.
TAKING ACCOUNTABILITY
You must be able to personally acknowledge that your actions were harmful.
You must feel or have once felt remorse for the harm you caused in whatever way you understand it within yourself; this does not need to be witnessed or confided to others or facilitators before groups. This is strictly within yourself.
You are seeking support in processing these feelings alongside your survivorship of incest and/or childhood sexual abuse.
CURRENT SAFETY
You are not currently engaging in sexually harmful behavior towards any individual in practice or fantasy.
PARTICIPATION GUIDELINES:
You must verbally acknowledge that your actions were harmful if your involvement in COCSA as a perpetrator is brought up during your share. This does not need to be more than a few words or a sentence.
ELIGIBLE PARTICIPANTS MAY:
Share feelings of guilt, shame, and remorse related to your past actions.
Discuss your own experiences of being abused and how this trauma influenced your understanding of appropriate behavior without excusing that behavior.
Process the complexity of being both a victim and someone who caused harm.
Seek support for healing from your own abuse.
PARTICIPANTS MAY NOT:
Describe specific details of the abuse you perpetrated.
Minimize or justify your harmful actions.
Discuss any current struggles with inappropriate attractions or urges towards any person.
WILD CHILD'S COMMITMENT:
We recognize that some survivors of CSA were also children who caused harm to others, often as a direct result of their own victimization. We believe these individuals deserve access to healing spaces while maintaining safety and comfort of all group members.
Virtual Event Guidelines
GUIDELINE 1: THIS IS A COMMUNITY SPACE
Our virtual events are designed for connection and building community. We’re here to enjoy each other's company, share interests, laugh and create positive memories together. This is an intentionally lighter space where we focus on who we are beyond our trauma and to build community with one another.
GUIDELINE 2: NO DISCRIMINATION OF ANY KIND
Discrimination against protected classes is not allowed at Wild Child. We do not express anger, hatred or disgust towards any person based on their gender identity, race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, disability, or religion.
GUIDELINE 3: KEEP TRAUMA-SHARING IN APPROPRIATE SPACES
While we acknowledge that we’re all survivors, these events are not the place to process or share explicit details about our trauma, abuse experiences, or triggering content. If something comes up naturally in conversation that might be heavy, please keep it brief and be mindful of others that are present. Save deeper processing for support groups where there is proper facilitation.
GUIDELINE 4: PARTICIPATE AUTHENTICALLY
Show up as you are! Share your interests, hobbies, opinions and personality. These events are about getting to know each other as whole people beyond our trauma. Let people see who you are when you aren’t in survival mode. Let your inner child go wild.
GUIDELINE 5: MAKE SPACE FOR EVERYBODY
Be mindful of how much you’re speaking versus listening. If you notice you’ve been dominating the conversation, invite others to share without using names. If somebody is talking a lot, the facilitator may gently redirect the conversation so everybody can have a chance to speak.
GUIDELINE 6: KEEP THINGS PLAYFUL AND APPROPRIATE
Have fun! Be silly, crack jokes, and get excited about things. However, please keep in mind to keep your jokes and comments appropriate for a community space. Explicit sexual content or jokes are not allowed.
GUIDELINE 7: NO ROMANTIC OR SEXUAL ADVANCES
Just like in our support groups, we keep all interactions platonic. Do not flirt with or make sexual/romantic advances (or jokes) towards anyone. These events are for building friendships and community, not for dating.
GUIDELINE 8: RESPECT OTHER PEOPLE'S BOUNDARIES
If you’d like to connect with someone outside of Wild Child events, feel free to offer your contact information either publicly in the chat or privately in Zoom DMs to the person and offer connection without pressure.
GUIDELINE 9: WHAT'S SHARED HERE, STAYS HERE
Do not gossip about other members, share screenshots of the event, or speak about people's personal information in or outside of the space. Confidentiality is key.
GUIDELINE 10: SHOW UP WITH GOOD ZOOM ETIQUETTE
Keep your mic muted when you aren’t speaking, avoid distracting visual behaviors or sexually explicit display names/photos.
GUIDELINE 11: SUPPORT OUR VOLUNTEERS
Our event hosts are volunteers. Please be cooperative, flexible and appreciative of their efforts. If you have feedback or concerns, please share them respectfully and privately after the event. Please remember: we’re all here to support each other in building joy and connection.
Committee & Board Meeting Guidelines
GUIDELINE 1: STAY FOCUSED
These meetings are for planning, organizing and advancing Wild Child’s operations and mission. This is not a space for trauma processing, personal sharing, or support. Save these conversations for appropriate support groups and events.
GUIDELINE 2: COME PREPARED & READY TO CONTRIBUTE
Review any agenda items, documents or materials shared before the meeting if you’re able. Arrive on time if you are able, bring ideas, feedback, questions, comments, concerns and solutions so we can use our time together effectively and move our work forward.
GUIDELINE 3: RESPECT EVERYONE'S TIME
We start on time and end on time. We stay on topic unless the group votes to shift gears. We value what each person brings to the table. Everyone has unique skills, perspectives and experiences that matter and deserves to be heard. If you have a suggestion that’s off the topic of the current agenda, note it for later discussion or suggest adding it to the next meeting's agenda.
GUIDELINE 4: COMMUNICATE RESPECTFULLY & CONSTRUCTIVELY
You may disagree with somebody's opinion, however you will need to disagree in a respectful manner. Challenge the ideas, not the people. We can have debates about how something will be done or handled without making it personal.
GUIDELINE 5: ALL DECISIONS ARE MADE COLLABORATIVELY
We do not make decisions alone regarding Wild Child. When an idea is proposed, members of the committee/subcommittee will take a vote on it and the majority will rule. The owner (Eowyn) is able to make a sweeping decision if it is necessary or for the greater good of Wild Child, however it will be done sparingly and only when necessary with thorough explanation.
GUIDELINE 6: OWN YOUR COMMITMENTS
If you agree to take on a task, follow through with it or communicate ahead of the meeting if you need more time or that you are no longer able to follow through. Our work depends on people doing what they say they’ll do. Accountability keeps Wild Child running smoothly.
GUIDELINE 7: MAINTAIN CONFIDENTIALITY
Some discussions may involve private member information, financial details, or plans that should not be shared publicly. Use discretion about what can be shared outside of these meetings and always protect people's privacy. If you aren’t sure about what can or cannot be shared: ASK.
GUIDELINE 8: LEAVE INTERPERSONAL CONFLICTS AT THE DOOR
Your personal feelings about somebody should not influence how you evaluate their ideas or contributions. Make decisions based on what is best for Wild Child and our community, not based on your personal feelings.
GUIDELINE 9: PRACTICE GOOD ZOOM ETIQUETTE
Keep yourself muted when you are not speaking, raise your virtual hand if you have a comment or question and the chair will get to you when they are able, minimize distractions, avoid multitasking if you’re able and be present. Use the chat for relevant links or quick clarifications.
GUIDELINE 10: ELEVATE CONCERNS IF NECESSARY
If you have concerns about a decision that was made, other committee members conduct, or anything else please address it directly with the Chair or Co-Chair rather than gossiping. For serious issues, contact [email protected]
GUIDELINE 11: DOCUMENT THE MEETING
Ensure someone is taking notes during each meeting or that the meeting has been transcribed to ensure that everything spoken about is listed and recorded properly. Documentation creates accountability and helps those who could not attend stay informed about the committees.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is Wild Child and who is it for?
Wild Child (SICSA) is an organization that facilitates support groups, virtual community building events and serves as a resource hub for survivors of incest and childhood sexual abuse. We are also taking steps towards advocacy for survivors as well.
Is Wild Child a crisis service or replacement for therapy?
No. We are not a crisis service, nor are we a replacement for therapy. If you are experiencing a crisis, we have easily accessible resources available on our website, or dial 911 if it is safe for you to do so.
Who runs the organization?
Wild Child was founded by Éowyn, a survivor who built the organization from the ground up. To learn more about Éowyn and the story behind Wild Child, please visit our About page.
Are staff/facilitators survivors?
Yes, we strive to have all of our staff and facilitators be survivors themselves. This is a survivor only space. However, we may have clinicians hosting support groups and they may not be a survivor. This will always be noted in the description of a group so you are aware before joining.
How is the organization funded?
The organization is currently self-funded. We are in the process of applying for 503(c) nonprofit status, and future funding will come from grants and member donations.
Who can join or access resources?
Membership is open to survivors of incest and childhood sexual abuse only. However, our resources are free and publicly available on our website, most of which will never be behind a paywall.
Do I have to share my real name?
No. You are welcome to use a pseudonym. For safety reasons, please do not include your last name in your display name if you decide to go by your real name.
Is my participation confidential? Who can see what I share?
Your participation is confidential within the context of each space. Shares made during a support group session are visible only to those attending that session. Shares made in the Discord server are visible to all Discord members. The information you share within our support groups & virtual events will not be shared publicly.
Are there age requirements to participate?
Yes. You must be 18 or older to join the community. This space is designed for adult survivors who were abused as children.
How do the support groups work?
Visit our Calendar, find a meeting you'd like to attend, and register using the provided link or the Zoom ID and passcode listed in the event description.
How large are the groups?
Group size varies week to week. Attendance will likely be smaller as the organization grows and will increase over time.
Can I just listen without speaking?
Absolutely. No one should ever feel pressured to share before they're ready. You are always welcome to attend a support group simply to hold space and listen.nization grows and will increase over time.
What if someone in my group says something that upsets me?
It depends on the situation. If something discriminatory is said, please bring it to the facilitator during or after the meeting. If the issue is unresolved or the facilitator did not handle the situation properly, you can reach out to our admin team at [email protected] for further evaluation.
Can I join more than one group?
Yes! All support groups and events are free and open to join.
What if I see somebody I know in a group?
Please do not acknowledge that person by name or share with others that they are in the group. If their presence makes you uncomfortable (for non-abusive reasons), do what you can to protect your own identity within the space.
Do I have to have my camera on?
No. Camera use is never required for any event, unless the facilitator states it is a camera-on support group or event.
What should I do if I am in a crisis right now?
Please visit our resources page to find support suited to your situation. If you are in immediate danger, please call 911 if it is safe for you to do so.
What are your safety protocols?
If a community guideline is broken, it will be gently re-read following the share, not to shame anyone, but to reinforce healthy communication boundaries. If guidelines are broken multiple times in a single meeting, a safety conversation will take place afterward and the individual may be asked to step away until they can take accountability and agree to follow the guidelines. IP banning is reserved for egregious violations in our Zoom rooms.
Are resources available in languages other than English?
At this time, no. We are a small organization and are not yet able to ethically source translations for our resources, website, or literature. We hope to expand language access in the future.
Do you offer resources for specific communities?
Yes. We offer resources specifically for marginalized and protected communities, in addition to general resources. We are also working toward offering a variety of support groups, though we will start with a few while we build our volunteer facilitator base.
Are there sensitive topics not allowed in shares like politics and world events?
You are welcome to share about these topics and how they are affecting you. However, any share that moves into denying the rights or humanity of any group of people is not permitted.
Can I be a part of Wild Child?
Yes! We are always looking for volunteers. If you're interested in facilitating a support group or virtual event, please follow the steps on our Volunteer page. If you're interested in joining or starting a committee or anything else, feel free to apply to become a committee Chair!
How can I help?
We always need more people. No organization cannot thrive without community support. The most direct ways to help are volunteering your time or making a donation, both of which go toward keeping our spaces and services running. If volunteering or donating isn't an option right now, there are free ways to help too, such as sharing our posts on social media, engaging with our content, and spreading the word about Wild Child to fellow adult survivors.
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